90 Day Fianc: Happily Ever After? star Usman Umar AKA Sojaboy is revealing his new location after years of trying to come to the U.S. Usman is a 35-year-old musician from Nigeria who was first seen in Before the 90 Days season 4 with his first wife Lisa Hamme flying from Pennsylvania to Nigeria to meet him. Usman was 20 years younger than Lisa but still got married to his baby girl who was jealous of Usmans female fans. Lisa and Usman split ahead of the finale, and he moved on with another American woman, Kim Menzies.