The Golden Bachelorette is nearing its conclusion, but there are signs that Joan Vassos’ relationship with Chock Chapple is more of a publicity stunt than a love match. It’s an almost unthinkable premise, because 61-year-old Joan has been through so much, and she really deserves to find true love again. The private school administrator from Maryland is no stranger to true love, as she had found it once before. She was married to the love of her life, John Vassos, for 32 happy years until he passed away in 2021.